“I Once Had Two Daughters — Now I Have a Son”: Tamzin Outhwaite Opens Up About Flo’s Journey

Actress Tamzin Outhwaite has spoken candidly about her child Flo’s gender transition, sharing an emotional reflection on the moment her family’s life changed forever.
“When Flo told me at just 10 years old that he was a boy, I didn’t really know how to react,” Tamzin has said in past interviews discussing her parenting journey. Like many parents navigating unfamiliar territory, she admits she initially felt uncertain — not about her love for her child, but about how best to support him. What never wavered, however, was her commitment to standing by him. Now, seven years later, Tamzin says her son is thriving.
The former EastEnders star has described watching Flo grow into himself as both humbling and inspiring. She has emphasized that her priority has always been her child’s happiness, safety, and wellbeing. “You learn,” she has shared, noting that parenting often means listening more than speaking and educating yourself along the way.
Tamzin has also spoken about the importance of open conversation, compassion, and creating a home where her children feel safe being exactly who they are. She acknowledges that the journey has involved learning curves, questions, and moments of deep reflection — but ultimately, she says, it has strengthened their bond.
Today, she describes Flo as confident and flourishing, surrounded by family support. For Tamzin, the experience has reshaped her understanding of identity and unconditional love. “You just want your child to be happy,” she has said — a sentiment many parents can relate to, regardless of circumstance.
By sharing her story publicly, Tamzin hopes to help normalize conversations around gender identity and show other families that support and understanding can make all the difference.